As for sex, I had a
girlfriend in Nanning four years ago who told me her best friend has only had sex twice
in her life: The night of her wedding, and one other time when she happened to fall
pregnant to her small dicker Chinese husband. Twice in six years! lol!

You appear to be missing your OWN point, PD. Women don't NEED sex....MEN do ! Twice in 6 years is probably something she's proud of!

Women only have sex in order to get what they want. Now she's got what she wanted. The car, the house, the bank account, and of course, the kid, hubby has served his purpose. She's free from Chinese peer pressure and can hold her head high as a 'respectable married woman'. As for sex, why does she need it? Why should she bother? Hubby will be out with his 'er nai', who will be 'taking care' of all his needs.