How is it a stereotype? I've lost count of how many times male students have said to me, "I must study hard and get a good job so I can buy a house and find a wife".

This is drilled into the minds of Chinese men as soon as they finish high school these days. The problem is that by indulging "their" women ( Chinese women don't belong to Chinese men ) they just make the problem worse.

It seems they don't have the balls to say "buy your own house and car". I have to say that out of all Asian women the Chinese seem to be the one's most lacking any sense of personal responsibility.