This is one thing I love in Pattaya: You can just sit in any bar, any restaurant, on some stairs on Beach Rd, almost anywhere, and women just approach you. "Hi, can I sit with you?" "Where you from"? "What your name?"

It is really cute and funny and charming. The young ones like 21,22, they are especially funny.

In China you can sit at a bar or in a restaurant all day and nobody will even give you the time of day.

I am lazy now, I'm older and don't want to put in any effort toward anything, especially chasing women. Even this part-time work I'm doing is a grind. It's just for the money.

I'm done with supporting anyone or waiting for them. Not sure if that's your attitude, it's certainly mine!