I forgot to mention, once again if you are genuine: cheap sex on tap 24 hours a day with sexy women should not be your only consideration. What about the weather? I like sunshine and beaches. A large and vibrant ex-pat community? All different types of quality Western food? These are all important IMO. Find a place in Asia where you can speak English and live a Western lifestyle but ignore the mainstream host culture. Pattaya ticks all the boxes for me. I can have a lifestyle similar to in Australia but without the expenses and I can avoid hideous white Australian women. You can also find a place that suits you. Just get out of China though or you will end up with nothing. A British guy I know in his fifties is stuck in Nanning. No women, a low paying teaching job, nothing to look forward to. You don't need to be like him!