I think if we are sensible we should yield to the likes of expat-hubby- yield to his knowledge and wisdom built up over donkeys years in China as an FT, a house-owner- a wife owner- a possessor of vast knowledge of the Chinese system- what was the system and importantly up to date, what the system is now. Before we start arguing the toss with expat-hubby, we should give him the respect he deserves. Just saying like.