I think if we are sensible we should yield to the likes of expat-hubby- yield to his knowledge and wisdom built up over donkeys years in China as an FT, a house-owner- a wife owner- a possessor of vast knowledge of the Chinese system- what was the system and importantly up to date, what the system is now. Before we start arguing the toss with expat-hubby, we should give him the respect he deserves. Just saying like.

I'm not seeking respect, either because of experience or otherwise. Your words, not mine!

Anyway, thanks for your input.

However, there seems to be no-one inclined to start arguing the toss, but anyone who wishes to do so, please don't hesitate!

Of course, I shall respond promptly.