I know men in my neighborhood who extremely wealthy ( on paper ) and married. They may appear to be happy but they envy the freedom MGTOW"s like me have. Marriage = no freedom and no flexibilty.

These men are controlled by their wives. Their wealth is also imaginary as it could all be taken away rapidly if the wife gets bored all of a sudden or wants someone with even more money. They could lose their luxury property and expensive car on a whim, according to the wife's attitude at the time. If they suddenly lose their earning potential, if they get sick, if the business fails, the wife will be gone.

Men are actively discriminated against at divorce time, the family court is also only for the benefit of women.

I will give you another example of a woman's attitude: If a woman has a low paying job like being a waitress, especially if she is pretty, nobody will say, "why don't you get a better job and improve yourself", nobody will ridicule her or disparage her.

Now, reverse this scenario: A woman has a boyfriend who is a waiter: Now, in the rare case they she might actually love him, her friends will say, "you can do better", "what are you doing with that loser" ?? etc. She will will dump him because of pressure from her friends and relatives. It makes no difference how fit or handsome he is.

This sort of thing is happening every day.

I know for a fact that good looks are of virtually zero advantage to a man unless he can get modelling work.

A British guy I know told me that he wanted to lose ten kilograms to make himself more attractive to Chinese women. I said WHY do you want to pander to THEIR wishes?

I then explained to him that they just want money anyway, they don't care if he is a bit fat. Being good looking and slim is of zero advantage to men in China.

Some guys never learn!