You are right that nobody in Thailand cares about sexpats banging women over 18. The post from ex-pat hubby is ludicrous. Thailand is a buddhist country with open attitudes about sex and the sex industry generates huge income for Thais. It seems that ex-pat hub does not know that there are thousands of videos on You Tube in Phuket, Pattaya, Bangkok etc of bar girls taken by Thai ex-pats and tourists. Many actually taken inside bars and go-go's and the posters are happy to identify themselves, even if they take upskirt photos of the girls. Some of the girls dance on elevated platforms naked anyway or with no underwear. "Pattayanz, "Aussie Yobbo in Thailand", "Kev in Thailand" "Bangkok 112" "King Epic" "Pattaya" " Geoff Carter" "Tim "Sharky" Ward" they all make videos of bar girl and sex districts in Thailand. They have been in Thailand for years. And someone thinks the Thais will care if this Silverboy takes a picture with a bar girl or of different bar girls? Thousands of Western men take pictures of bar girls every day in Bangkok and Pattaya and upload them to various social media. These guys openly brag about their sexual prowess. The bars and clubs themselves use the images of the bar girls they employ frequently in their advertising and promotional material. Claims of Issan girls having their privacy violated in Bangkok and Pattaya are nonsense. If you want to be anonymous don't live and work in Pattaya. If you work in a popular bar or club you will quickly become well known and your images will be all over the net. Silverboy is in fact a minnow in all this. Ex-patt hubby is naive in the extreme. If SB was still in China that is where he would be most at risk as the Chinese have been humiliated by him many times. I am sure he is now on the radar screen both with the Chinese education department and known and hated by many ex-pats in China.