When a person chooses to live with decency and with good moral, most people believed your life is boring..They even thought, you're not living in reality...They feel boring and always looking for something ...something that they can't find anywhere, if they've found it ,they're always temporary ...then, they begin seaching again...to sum up, most don't know what are they looking for, so they can't really find it and deep inside them, there's no contentment at all...Well, it's just a matter who you are and how you deal your life with...Well, all what you said are well said and fully understood and respected....As I can see it here, I guess, my whole family and I were just raised differently, of which decency, good values,and honesty are always on the top regardless of what kind of people surround us...and these obvious wrong doings of others especially the foreign educators in CHina are just bad to think and see, but since most people seem accepting it and even living with it, well, ,we have nothing to do with that...we can freely choose which line we want to follow .....and for me..for us...maybe only for us..we won't ever budge an inch to conform for this immorality..I may still respect them as a person,but not the action!!!....Okey ,thanks for all the readers of my post and those who shared their ideas and comments....( Live any kind of life you want, it's your choice, but living morally upright is still the best!!!...)This may be my last post here regarding this hot issue...thanks!!