Why should I "grow up"? I can assure you I don't like to be controlled by anyone and I would not tolerate any university telling me how to live. Like I said, at some universities there is no control, at others there is. You like to think you are an expert on China but you have admitted that you have not been here for seven years. Some universities are crap, and they also try to restrict an FT's freedom, others do not. You seem not to like anything about China, there must be something you like?