Sorry to hear that buddy. This is something I would worry about for myself, as well. I discussed it with my girlfriend a few months ago and I made it clear that if we ever had children I would want them born in the U.S. as a natural citizen. It seems that's a good idea, judging from your post.

Well, if your wife can manage to find a job perhaps you as a couple to afford to send you to night school. Don't laugh at me for suggesting this but nursing is always in demand everywhere (except maybe China, who knows), but you could certainly make a living with it if you returned to your home country. There's also the possibility of you teaching English in your home country but I don't know how that would work, I'm sure you know better.

Keep your chin up!

Justin