No I don't think there is anything sad about being so old and not being married or anything like that. That kind of thinking is more Chinese then western, as to them females must be married by 25, or it's all over. The same rules don't seem to apply as much to men, gotta love the double standards here. I honestly don't know why Silverboy talks about his love life so much, I think he is simply trying to justify himself, mainly to himself through others.