The same rules don't seem to apply as much to men, gotta love the double standards here

Exactly. I always got annoyed when hearing "western men are so open, just come to china to steal our girls", well maybe, just maybe, if Chinese men treated their girls better then they wouldn't need to worry?

It was only a hundred or so years ago, that women's feet were tightly bound. Sure there are more "independent" chinese girls now, but I'm not sure if that is a bad or good thing. It seems primitive capitalism has swept across the major chinese cities like a cancer, and young chinese girls now won't settle for anything less than handsome and rich.