I agree entirely with you. The manners are not good, not good at all. And most of them seem to think they have a right to cheat, just because they are married!! Absolutely despicable...

Western men are "men" in Chinese womens eyes. You either have the camply dressed Andy Lau wannabe hairdresser type boys, or the boorish rude man who has barely evolved out of the swamp. Even a halfway well mannered laowai guy can get a Chinese girl, if that is the competition...