If you have lived in China for a few years you can easily tell that this is not a "harmonious" society.

Pepole are good at being cruel to one another wherever they may be. Love thy neighbor is the way to go. That goes for whities too, not just Asians. As a herd, we're all guilty of being unharmonious in our homelands. It's not just the Chinese. Everywhere is the same in this regard, but to varying degrees. I guess the silverboy poster couldn't be in harmony anywhere, he loves philosophying. I advise him to get a real job. Then he'll be to busy to generalize!