@ Silverboy, thks for the support. I feel I have a brother in the world now, with regards my taste in Chinese/asian women. So sad the ideal of beauty in China is pale stick insect, skinny legs, no butt/hips:(

I'm 34 and wished I'd listened to your advice instead of spending nigh on 5 years dicking around in China. Not much fun to be home and have to reboot, so to speak. China is only worth it as you say, when 40, and with a house and savings account at home.