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Mic - 2005-05-09
In response to laughable - ESL discussion (Yingwen Laoshi)

They drink far less and in a different way than Westerners. They go to a restaurant and enjoy some beers with their dinner, usually in the company of their wives, and they go home before midnight. Big difference from going to some bar and looking to do some not so respectable things.

No, you should be a gentleman, that's a real man. If you can't be one, then stay in your own country. And if you are a real man, then you would have the guts to refuse a drink when you don't want one, rather than being controled by others.

No, actually, if you compare the weekend activities of an average Chinese University student and the average American or Australian (etc...) student, there is a big difference.

There are the peasants from the Western farm provinces of China, they have no manners and a certainly not gentlemen. They are looked down upon by most other Chinese people as animals, not people. Maybe you refer to them as getting drunk. They do it as a group of migrant workers, a way to show comradery, they are home by midnight.

Again, show some respect for other cultures. If you want to drink and have the life of the party, stay in your own country. It is not your business to come here and do those kinds of things. They hire you to teach English to school children, not to go out and get drunk at night and so on. Ask the Chinese teachers what they do in their free time, I seriously doubt any of them will say they stay out late and go to bars...and so on... If you want to be like that, come as a tourist, spend your money, then leave.

China has enough problems, the last thing the country needs is some immorale foreigners running around the place like it is a University Fraternity party.

Messages In This Thread
1.9 million - ESL discussion -- Mike B. -- 2005-05-07
Yo. Mic - ESL discussion -- Michael -- 2005-05-18
don't be pig - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-08
People who just don't get it - ESL discussion -- Mike B. -- 2005-05-09
don't write it then... - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-09
Are you real? - ESL discussion -- Yingwen Laoshi -- 2005-05-08
stay home for that.... - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-08
Hey you young, 'hip', discriminating types - ESL discussion -- SiamSap -- 2005-05-11
Better off without that job - ESL discussion -- Mike B. -- 2005-05-12
Thanks for the support - ESL discussion -- RhenoThai -- 2005-05-14
yeah... don't let it bother you - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-12
laughable - ESL discussion -- Yingwen Laoshi -- 2005-05-08
be a gentleman... - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-09
Not your business - ESL discussion -- Yingwen Laoshi -- 2005-05-10
you go back.. we don't want to be Americanized - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-10
Assumption - ESL discussion -- Yingwen Laoshi -- 2005-05-11
You sound like an American - ESL discussion -- Da Yan Jing -- 2005-05-14
Life or something like it.... - ESL discussion -- China -- 2005-05-25
....and Mic's from where? - ESL discussion -- Yingwen Laoshi -- 2005-05-15
I don't know...... - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-15
Sorry ! It didn't appear - ESL discussion -- Yingwen Laoshi -- 2005-05-14
what about it? - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-15
Not me! - ESL discussion -- Yingwen Laoshi -- 2005-05-14
Please don't generalize - ESL discussion -- Paul -- 2005-05-14
just a saying - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-12
Noyes - ESL discussion -- Dos -- 2005-05-09
not so... - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-09
Fai hua - ESL discussion -- Dos -- 2005-05-10
i wish... - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-11
No more space! - ESL discussion -- Yingwen Laoshi -- 2005-05-11
different... and discreet - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-11
Get your head out of the sand - ESL discussion -- Yingwen Laoshi -- 2005-05-11
wrong again.... - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-12
What? - ESL discussion -- Mike B. -- 2005-05-12
good points, but..... - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-13
Demand ensures jobs for "cowboys" - ESL discussion -- Mike B. -- 2005-05-15
To Mike B. Re. "Good Points" - ESL discussion -- jinchafa -- 2005-05-15
clean-up time... - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-16
To Mic - ESL discussion -- Jay -- 2005-05-09
no you are... - ESL discussion -- Mic -- 2005-05-09
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