I could tell you 4 stories like that. But let's look at the conclusion.

If you do not know already, you need to. Men are the romantic ones in a relationship with a woman. Men are the only ones who really fall in love and are not using a calculator to figure out the maerial a gain, every minute. (It may be best to keep chasing three or so at a time. You wil always be treated better that way.) All women, even your friends and relatives, whomever they are, hang around men for material gain, in the present or the future. If the woman already makes a lot of money, then you better be that much richer. Otherwise the woman may overlook it intitally but complain bitterly about it later. Often they are sly about thier games seeking material gain. Just know that Chinese women are no different than American women, except in one way. Chinese women are very polite and that causes you to let you guard down.

If you think you are being treated adequately then you need to decide, if you want to get married. Why do men want to be rich? To get a good looking lady. End of story. Enough said.