Hi all. I have a bit of a dilemma to discuss. I am very attracted to a Chinese student at my university. She is 21 and is pretty and sexy. She is not my student, but the student of another FT at my university. I have been at this uni for one year.

I am 44, I know this might sound wrong, but I am smitten with this girl. We get along so well, and we enjoy dancing and singing so much. When I kiss and cuddle with her at KTV I feel alive, I can't get this sensational feeling from any West woman I have ever been with, including my ex-wife.

We are both very physically attracted to each other also. The sexual chemistry between us is magical, but so far we have resisted the urge to actually go through with the deed.

Having said that, I don't know if I can hold out much longer. This girl is driving me crazy, my hormones are on the verge of exploding. When I see her in her in her short skirt and frilly skimpy top with her long hair and long legs it drives me wild.

I just feel a bit guilty, because she is a student at my university. If she was not at my uni I would have had her in bed by now.

But then, we are both adults, why should I feel any guilt?

Some advice from more experienced foreign teachers would be appreciated.

Thanks,

Ricky