I agree 100% with Clyde. He is telling it like it is. I've noticed "Romeo" hasn't come back to offer a rebuttal against Clyde because there isn't a sound and sane one. Oh sure, the old stand-bys here (Silverboy, Magistar, etc.) and are notorious for their views on China, Chinese women, western women, etc. But their opinions and views don't make Romeo's posting any less . . . icky. I agree with Clyde -- if you can land a 21 year old, you can surely land someone only a couple years older who has graduated, gotten employed, and is now looking for a foreign, older, rich(?) husband. Students should always be off-limits, with no exceptions or special circumstances. You can be friends with students, hang out with them, but keep out of their pants for god's sake! If you stay in touch with this GIRL, Romeo, then you can explore a further relationship in a couple of years once she graduates and can better be defined as a WOMAN. If you can't wait that long, then your feelings for her are certainly sexual with no hint of love or respect.