if you can land a 21 year old, you can surely land someone only a couple years older who has graduated, gotten employed, and is now looking for a foreign, older, rich(?) husband.

You are suggesting it's okay for women to be like gold diggers as they grow older? How do you know this person who is asking about the relationship is well off to begin with?

If you stay in touch with this GIRL, Romeo, then you can explore a further relationship in a couple of years once she graduates and can better be defined as a WOMAN. If you can't wait that long, then your feelings for her are certainly sexual with no hint of love or respect.

What if the student stays in school until she is 25 or 26? How much longer do you expect the person to wait? Your standards for what defines a woman are unexplained, as you just speak out of pure emotion.

On a last note to both you and the other "Iconkiller" poster, you both haven't actually communicated to the girl, either. So you offputting attitude shows a pretty easy disregard for the opinion of any local Chinese. One of the reasons that the "Romeo" poster possibly hasn't responded was he was intimidated by the holier than thou mantras of folks who responded to him. I don't see people who put themselves as better off morally as more of a human being than those who aren't. Your higher morals are first and foremost for yourself and to make yourself a better, more compassionate person. To talk to another person in such a condescending manner like they are somehow less worthy of you (and therefore possibly less of a human being) only makes others think of you as being on that very low level of humanity that you accuse others of.