You've won this debate fair and square...

I hope it isn't just about winning for you, as your sweeping generalizations of several people whom you haven't met won't make others agree with you personally. As for criticizing other posters for "following up" you've been doing the same thing yourself. I'll be honest and say that if I was 44 years old I cannot see myself with a 21 year old student at all. But at the same time for you to take a moral high ground when sexpats are clearly not the priority criminals of the society where this issue is being argued doesn't do any favors to others for showing how moral you really are or how much you really know the society.