If I met you in real life, I would have walked away by now and not wasted any more time with your view of things because they hold no value. But since this is a public board it isn't surprising to see folks who write what you've written, and I just have to deal with it. You sound like what left wingers would call a "moderate" wumaodang (50 cent brigadier). While you may acknowledge the seeming existence of an "opposing" viewpoint you do not define correctly what it's really made of, and until you get out of your self medicating "bright sided" way of seeing things you'll continue to be blind to this and we'll continue to disagree. And NO, I will not come back to china to try and change myself. I do think that your recent posts especially the one I am responding to right now serve as a good example for newbies to look at on what NOT to become after working in china for a while.

I do have to finish and say that my last post was meant as a end to the discussion of this topic between me and you. I do not tolerate folks who have no boundaries AND always want to prove themselves as being more right than you over every matter discussed very well. But hey I that's just one of the reasons why I left China in the first place.