Back in the states and in my trips to China I have spoken with chinese women about their viewpoints regarding why they date chinese men and why they date foreign men. I can tell you that sexism is alive and well in china. You don't see all these adoptions happening in the USA for no good reason.

NO NO NO NO! with respect Dragonised, don't start cross examining Chinese girls, as if you're, an operative for British intelligence in the 1950's-not very romantic you know. Be a red-blooded American, tell her she's beautiful, tell her her eyes are like ebony, her skin puts ivory to shame-But don't talk about how she is connected to an evil regime, bit of a bromide that, don't you see? I am going to have to take you under my wing HA HA HA- Am I right or am I right?