You are right on here. In three years that I have been in China i have only dated two women. I ignore the rest of those that sask me "let me have your number." I don't know what poster said it here "No job, no house- no date!" I stuck by that and it works. Once you weed out those with other interests, Chinese women can be afable companions. The one I am with now earns more than I do. It works for me becuase we never ask eachother for money, only time together.