And if the school FAO gives you some problems, treat him and his immediate family to a free restaurant meal each month.

So now you are justifying a mild form of corruption to ensure your employment references and continued future in China. In China they call this "guanxi" in the west we call it oiling the wheels, or perhaps the better term for what it really is, corruption or cronyism. I don't buy favours but each to their own.

Good luck.
SMGs/AL