If you wanna experience impoliteness and rudeness on a grand scale, China is the place for you! Queue-jumping, spitting, bawling on cellphones in resataurants, husbands beating up wives in the street while passers-by gawk, and the din of fireworks like a war in progress, etcetera. That's what I've chosen to immerse myself in. But there are also good points! Teaching can be a walk in the park, and drinking before teaching in moderation is something you won't get away with as a teacher in the West, but you most definitely will here in the sticks, as well as smoking on the premises at work. So, China is tailor-made for me, the women included, of course! That's why I've been here for a long time. However, If I'm doing as the Chinese do, eg the smoking, don't dare approach me and ask me to stop doing it! Complain to the Chinese first! That's my point! I'm not here to uphold western culture.