If I'm doing as the Chinese do, eg the smoking, don't dare approach me and ask me to stop doing it!

When in rome, do as,,,,,eh?

I suppose then having a mistress is acceptable also, see, how deep down the rabbit hole does one go? Personally, I don't care if giving yourself lung cancer is a hobby of yours, I do care when it affects others, when there are signs and laws asking you not to force your second hand smoke onto others. Grow out of yer box fer once!