In the USA there are too many romanticist types who due to the prosperous, safe, and sheltered upper middle class or upper class environments that they come from will expect realistic perfection of their own unrealistic expectations. This though can be attributed to their own lack of social skills as well as the misinformation that they are spoonfed to by the soft American media. Still the place that produces the worst types of idiots to prop up everything but the overlooked good for whatever culture they are setting their sights on. Some people have to learn the hard way after they get cleaned out by some unscrupulous foreign gal.