I hate to say this, but I am the brown sheep of the family. Not black as in a screw off, or white as a good boy, but I am just an odd ball. I do things most of my family do not. My brother sends me e-mails quite often to return home. My mother is the same way, added with some emotional black mail that only mom's can get away with. But China fits right in with me. China makes me laugh three times as much as it makes me angry. I've met others that blend into China more so than their home countries.