Well firstly the girls who only want to be taken to flashy gaudy places are to be avoided. Girls in those bars and ktvs are no good. Girls to be met on campus can be good, but not those girls who drink and smoke, the devils own work they can be.

When meeting nice studentess, pay for her noodles and soft drink, let her use your shower in your room if she wants to, normally chinese studentess dorms have 8 girls fighting for the bathroom with limited hot water, she will repay you in kind for that, may even let you get soapy and wet with her under the lukewarm shower water, you lucky dog you and isn't that nice? Cook for her, anything different, exotic, that she will not usually eat in China, does not need be expensive, food can be purchased cheaply via taobao or locally. Show a nice movie in your ft provided flat, let her use your internet as her dorm net access may not be reliable. Be a gentleman and reap the results, and avoid the bad gold digging girls who like gaudy wealth. Where turnoi has gone wrong in 10 years and not even had a girlfriend, I really cannot fathom, many older blokes in Chengdu with neither a hare to eat, nay pot to piss in, and they get girlfriends or wives.?!?!

Intuitive, witty, observant, wise, from beginning to end Collyhurst. Some others on the site will be wise to print out your advice and adjust their approaches accordingly. Thank you so much.