Seeking love, but perhaps that has also been covered.

If I may turnoi, I'd like to cover another point, what of younger FT's freshly graduated, I don't agree China is a good place for them, do you?

http://shanghaiist.com/2013/06/13/expats_in_china_facing_increasingly_competitive_job_market.php

10,000 rmb and barely paying loans back home, surely better off staying AT home, or a country where teaching english pays better?!