it would indeed be good to get a response from a homosexual vicar.

You expect a bit too much; even if there was one, he/she most likely would not out him/herself in the public. And also please note that your mindset behind such an expectation again could be seen as interfering with the privacy of other people. Privacy is holy next to the Holy Spirit, of course, but you seem to have a tremendous problem with it.

Because of my seniority and wisdom, it falls on me to offer good advice on this site ,Turnoi. I'm afraid it's a calling of sorts- a calling that I cannot turn my back on. I am aware, as I expect the chosen ones before me, Like LondonGirl and Woodbine Willie were, I am sure, that you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. So my advice to any cleric, who may read this, favourably disposed to big hairy sailors, is to get it off his chest and tell us all about it- not too much detail mind-hahaha.