It is all about risk assessment. There are many things to be wary of in China, HIV is one thing, but it's not at the top of most people's lists.

Sometimes the greatest risk is not getting H.I.V, it is catching something that you can't get rid of or control no matter what medication you take.

In others, an extra clingy, psychotic, emotional, Chinese girlfriend. That's why I don't really like dating women in the early 20's these days.