If you want to motivate a child, use the following steps to achieve long-term, positive results.

Praise your child when he does something well, rather than chastise him for not doing something right. Studies have shown that positive reinforcement is much more effective than negative.

Show enthusiasm for your child's interests. Talk to him about them and ask questions. This is especially effective in motivating a child to have more interest in school. Focus on what he is learning, not on his grades.

Make sure that your child understands we are all born with different talents and abilities. Emphasize what your child does well and encourage him to develop himself more in that area, rather than just trying to erase his weaknesses.

Assign your child chores to do around the house to build his sense of responsibility. Create a chart with your child's name on it. Reward his good behavior with check marks and promise a reward when he attains a certain number of check marks.

Display your child's school or homework on the wall to show pride in his positive accomplishments. Invite his input when you're making family decisions.

See that your child has plenty of time to just play and be a kid. Some kids are so over scheduled with homework, sports and other planned activities that they don't have time to relax and explore what makes them happy.