We all know that we have to be positive and, more importantly, feel positive to attract the things we want to manifest in life. But how do we change our negative beliefs and our outlook on life that we have believed for so long? We just have to keep learning and putting that knowledge to use for our advantage.

We all know how to effectively manifest stuff we don't want into our life. Being late, getting the wrong order at a restaurant, and not have things turn out the way we wanted it to turn out. We expect these things to happen on a daily basis and then we exclaim "I knew that was going to happen!" or "Why do bad things always happen to me?" but we don't realize that thinking like that is the very thing that is holding us back from manifesting our dreams.

Those common phrases add negativity in our lives and they almost become a staple in our lives - two things that do not help us become more positive about life.

So how do we become more positive? The solution is to flip these negative sayings around and start exclaiming things like "It always works out for me!" or "Great things happen to me every day!" and get rid of the negative sayings altogether.

It feels weird to talk positive like that right? But why should it? Why is it so easy to talk negative and so hard to talk positive?

It stems from our beliefs which stem from our experiences which ultimately stem from what we've been taught in life.

We've been taught that life is hard and bad things happen to good people and because we have manifested those bad things over and over again into our life we believe that it must be true. It becomes easier and easier for us to attract bad things to us because with each negative experience we believe it's going to happen more and more.

Soon we start to believe that we can't have what we really want. The perfect home, job, spouse, house, and so on and so forth become farfetched and hopeless so instead of trying again we spend our lives saying more of those common negative sayings like "You can't always get what you want!". We have to learn to wake up and realize that all of that is complete crap.

All we have to do is change the way we talk and think and talk about life and it's rules and make those new thought into our beliefs. That's it.

Those beliefs will then change the way your life plays out and you will start to believe that you deserve the better things in life and that you will obtain the things you want.

All the effort in the world will not get you what you want unless you really believe you deserve it.

Wherever you are in life and whatever you are doing remember this, you deserve to be happy and you deserve to have what you want in life. Everyone deserves happiness and joy in life and by changing your outlook you will change your outcome.

Start living the life you want to live and not the life you're expected to live.

Kari is the owner of manifest connection and also is a big believer in the law of attraction http://manifestconnection.com/Law-of-Attraction.html.