How do I become more confident and change my life? Thats the question you likely have running through your head if your reading this! The truth is you control everything in your life and this includes how confident you feel! If your feeling insecure then you can change this and make your life better!

There are so many ways to change the way you see yourself. The reason for low self esteem can vary from person to person. But in general you feel bad about yourself because you are self conscious about the way you look or perhaps don't even respect yourself because of something you did in the past. Whatever the reason is you can fix it with a little work!

In this article I'm going to run down just a few things you can do to become more confident. So how do I become more confident then you ask?

- First thing you need to realize is to be grateful for what you have. Odds are you have a lot more than other people you know in your life if you just stop and look. Stop looking at the things you do not have in life and start looking at everything you do have.

- Forgive yourself for anything you did in the past that you do not respect. We are all human and make mistakes. The past is gone and you can change nothing but right now. Start over new right now and make the choices you respect and you will see a rise if your self confidence.

- Dress nice so that you look your best. If you have any physical features that you do not find attractive try to make them look the best they can. For instance if you think your nose is big then do all that you can to make yourself accept it. Odds are it's not nearly as bad as you think it is. Also remember that having a big nose is such a small problem compared to other problems that people have. Imagine missing an arm or something of that scope and that really puts things into perspective. This kind of thinking can work with any problem!

One good thing to remember is that everyone feels insecure from time to time. We are all human and feel the need to fit in from time to time. Just remember that you are as good as anyone out there and only deserve the best. So stop asking yourself "How do I become more confident?" and become more confident!

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