First you need to know what you like and don't like. When you know this, you will be then asked to check out your value system. What is important to you and why are these things important to you.

Secondly, begin now to make a list of things that you are really excel at. Be honest and open with yourself. Feel the feelings of joy and success when you accomplished what you did. Even if it was a small accomplishment, it is important to focus on this feeling, how was your breathing at the time, how did you stand? How did everyone look around you, how did your heart beat? How did your emotions feel throughout your entire body? Get into that exact state of mind you were in when you accomplished a goal that you were proud of. Stay in this space. This will take place once you follow your inner voice. Don't over analyze and over think what you bring to the table. your inner voice will remind you that you are remarkable and you will be as great as you choose to be.

Thirdly, begin to surround yourself with people that are helpful and positive models to follow. Getting into a state of confidence will readily attract the people and events necessary to reach your goal. This is the law of attraction in action! When you begin to do this you will find that confidence you;ve been searching, was with you all along. Trust that you are moving in the right direction if it feels right and is indicative of your highest joy.

Increase your confidence by embracing uncertainty: http://bakerthebrand.com/2009/11/25/embrace-uncertainty/.