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Motivation Tips

Ending a Conflict
By:Megan Lambert

No one likes to be confronted for the things that they have done. It is like you have been told that you are wrong. It puts you in a position where a person does not like you and nobody wants to be tagged as the unlikable person. Here is your best way to handle a confrontation without fists flying.

Know what is the cause of the conflict and solve it immediately. There will be times that settling the matter is not the immediate solution but tackling the problem head on can. Talk to the person after he has calmed down.

Try not to list down names of the people that are involved in the conflict. It will only create more havoc inside your workplace and you will be in the heat of things as well as the center of hatred for everyone. Let things cool down first then have that conversation with the person and no one else.

If you feel that things are too intense for both of you but you still want to resolve the matter, have a neutral person between you and let trust and respect rise above your pride.

You might not be able to control how the person will react but you can always control how you will react to a certain situation. Given this, you should be able to know your limits and never cross the line. Know when to give in and when to prevent your temper from flaring.

Remember that other people also have feelings and they do get hurt. This should be your basis for reconciliation. Other people have emotions and you might have hurt those emotions which is why you got such hostile opinions.

Some people would simply give in all because they do not want conflict. These people do not have backbones and would rather stay away from conflicts by sucking on the person. Although it is another way of preventing conflicts but it is to your disadvantage.

Saying sorry is the best way to end a conflict. Throwing all pride out the window is the best possible way to put a period on your confrontation with someone.

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