Do you feel paralyzed by thoughts and fears of what others are thinking of you? Do you recognise how this self destructive habit is draining your energy, taking away your power and shutting down your creative self expression? Are you sufficiently frustrated and/or angry about being so internally controlled and hijacked by it? If so then there is a simple and effective way to freedom that may interest you. What is that you ask?

In order to address this important and pervasive issue that plagues a large proportion of the human population in the guise of many call"political correctness" one must recognise that it is not "what" others think about you that is the problem. Rather it is the "fear" of what others think about you. So what's the difference you ask?

Well simply that the former "lives" inside of them whereas the latter lives inside of you. On some reflection you might begin to see the significance of this fact. If not let me make it clear.

What others think of you is not under your control. What is under your control is how you react to or emotionally are affected by what they think of you. Now at first you may not even see that you actually "are" in control of the latter. After all, you may say that is the problem I am plagued by.

The truth is you can simply and readily get a "handle" on that reaction simply by a) becoming aware of the underlying interpretations (or beliefs) you superimpose on what others are thinking about you and then b) like outdated computer software erase/delete them once and for all.

Let me give you a brief example. Suppose you suspect that your friends think you are a bit of an odd ball. Now if this makes you avoid your friends it is likely because you are not confident in yourself and that is because you may harbour a subconscious belief about yourself such as "There's something wrong with me".

That belief is associated with feelings of inadequacy, inferiority, abnormality, humiliation, shame, weakness, lack of self confidence and self worth, helplessness, vulnerability and so on which get triggered whenever you suspect someone thinks you are odd. The belief that there is something wrong with you and its associated negative feelings are generated by negative memories from your past also stored inside of you which behave like what I have termed "emotional landmines" that are triggered to go off.

It is now possible to completely and permanently diffuse those landmines by erasing/deleting the memories responsible for them from your subconscious mind. When this occurs one's self confidence, self esteem, self worth, sense of adequacy and normalcy will powerfully and spontaneously return. This will make you absolutely resilient to any negative thoughts others will ever have of you again.

Is this too hard to believe?

Well individuals around the world have been realizing how easily and rapidly this can happen. To learn more about how this can happen for you kindly visit the web site below.

Nick Arrizza MD, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor is an International Life, Executive, Organizational Tele-Coach, Author of Esteem For The Self: Restoring the Divine Holographic Energy Field With The Mind Resonance Process® (MRP) and the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).

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