Success begins with what i call self-confrontation. If you want to succeed, then what are you waiting for? Are you succeesful if not then ask yourself why. Because if you can identify the why then you will be able to fix the problem of why you are not successful so you can be on your way to success. Confront yourself with this questions! One of the difference between human beings and animals is that, we can analyze things, we can come out of ourselves and analyze our lives, hold ourselves accountable and see how far we are. We can be able to question ourselves and find answers to those questions, so why not use that ability to your advanatge. Do you want to know why you are not successful, do you really want to know? It's because you are lazy, you are full of excuses and you let fear dominate your life, you are playing the blame game that's why. If you have any chance of succeeding these are definitely not the attributes you should have. These attributes are for the weak-hearted individuals who spend their days day dreaming and fantasizing about the life they wish they could have had.

I wrote this article for one reason and one reason only! TO MAKE YOU GET OFF YOUR BUTT AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR LIFE AND STOP WHINING AND COMPLAINING. Notice that i did not say to HELP YOU,no, i said MAKE YOU! If you are reading this with the mental attitude of let me see or i'l think about it and all those lame excuses that unsuccessful people make then this is definitely not for you, just stop reading and don't waist your time and go back to your life of complaining and whining. However if you are ready to revolutinize your life and stop day dreaming and want to make things happen this is for you. There are many books writen about success and those books to a certain extend have helped a fraction of people achieve success, however, there's still a large amount of people who are not there yet. They need to be dragged, they need to be MADE to get up and do something, but of course i cannot physically drag or make anyone do anything what i can do and want to do is stir you up to a level where you going to reach a boiling point that will make you get up and want to do something about your life, that is how i want to drag you to success. The title of this article is: I Dare You To Succeed. Daring has nothing to do with asking or begging. I want to compel you to action.Get up now and go out there make things happen and be successful. Make something of your life, do not except and be content with a life of mediocrity. Don't wait for tomorrow! To a person who wants to be successful tomorrow does not exist, they only know today. Today exists and you can do something today about your life today. You see, it's easy to dream but to bring the dream into realization is not easy that's why so few people are successful. The very fact that you can dream is proof enough that you have the ability and the potential tomake it come true. You Can! Don't allow lazyness, fear and excuses deprive you of enjoying the success that you can create for yourself. You have what it takes. push yourself to the limit, get out of your comfort zone. it is being said that, "comfort is the enemy of success." Some of you may feel offended,insulted and infuriated by this article but if it sheds some light in your life so you can bring change then be it. You can hate me all you want but as long as this article inspires you somehow to take a deep introspection of your life, so you can change your paradigm and change your life it is worth it to me. Stop being lazy and do something, stop making excuses and blaming people for not succeeding. There are those who seem to think that the world owes them something. It is this kind of thinking that has crippled a lot of people. They think that the world is not being fair to them and try and justify why they are not succeeding, can you imagine a person justifying why they are not successful? There's no justification to that! Nobody owes you anything! Instead of looking for reasons why you are not successful find reasons why you should and must be successful. Inspite of what is happening in your life dare to hope, date to dream for big things and go after them. There are opportunities for success and growth everywhere. opportunities are like a train, if you don't hop on they pass and you get left behind. Earlier on i said people don't achieve success because of lazyness,excuses, blaming and fear, all these are weak character traits. Life is tough and only tough people will stand the test of time and enjoy the fruits of their labour. It's been said that it's a jungle out there, a survival of the fittest. A jungle is a place of wild animals, they all have to fend for themselves. They have to fight for their own survival. It's kill or be killed simple ast that. The world is a type of a jungle with a different type of animale called human beings. If you want to be successful you have to be bold and courageous. Nobody will hand success to you in a silver paltter you have to go out and get it. The world doesn't care about, most of the things in life must and have to be fought for. Life is not what is cut-out to be on soap operas,films and movies. It is really tough which explains why so few people are trully successful.

If you want to join the league of the successful you have to think as they think and do as they do. A change of thinking and attitude can help you be on your way to success. You are a person of glory so why don't you make up your mind to make something of your life and manifest your glory, the glory that's in you.I DARE YOU TO SUCCEED! I DARE YOU TO SUCCEED! I DARE YOU!

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