Hi Karen. If thinking something really makes it a reality, then...I think you're nuts! Sorry. Thinking about something doesn't make it reality. That's called "wishful thinking" and it's been deluding people for all time. Including yourself. Please give me one instance where just by thinking something, it came to be. If this is true, try thinking that you can stand in front of a moving car and not allow it to hurt you...Have a nice day.