Is lack of willpower a sign of weakness, or is it your subconscious protecting you from being outside of your comfort zone? A strong willpower is needed to accomplish any challenging task in life. If something wasn't a challenge, we wouldn't struggle to obtain it.

You can draw a strong willpower out of yourself if you are focused on your desired outcome. Starting something that is a challenge, such as losing weight or becoming more of a social person, shouldn't be taken lightly. Without focus, you'll more than likely fall short of achieving your goals.

Being comfortable with yourself and being fearful of change are two different ideas on each end of the spectrum. Most people are afraid of stepping outside of their comfort zone, and therefore, they never experience the things they want to experience in life. You can overcome that fear and accomplish anything in life – you just need to know where and how to begin.

Having a clear-cut goal in mind is essential if you plan on achieving success. If you want to lose weight, you need to know how much you want to lose and why you want to lose it. If you are a shy person and want to be more social, you need to know what the end result will be when you accomplish that goal. It may take a few minutes or a few days to fully understand how you expect your life to be when you do get to where your going.

Willpower can come and go; it's up to you to keep it going strong, and there's a few ways to do this. First, you need to always remember why it is you're changing whatever aspect of your life that you're changing. Keep it on an index card, paste it on your computer, repeat it to yourself in the mirror everyday, whatever you need to do to keep it in the front of your mind.

Second, you can take some time everyday to visualize what your life will be like when you accomplish your goals. Really go into detail; picture how you'll act, how you'll feel, how you will influence those around you. The best time to visualize your success is right before you go to bed and right before you get out of bed in the morning.

If you find yourself wavering throughout the day, you should have a visual cue handy that will instantly remind you of your goal. It might be a picture of a swimsuit you want to buy when you lose 20 pounds, or it may be a picture of a large crowd of people who are waiting to hear your next public speech. Don't be caught off guard – your weaknesses can show up at any time to throw you off track.

So how do you know when you've accomplished your goals? If you've been consistently working towards them, whatever you've been doing will become a habit in your daily life. When you start working diligently towards other goals on your list, you'll know you've already accomplished what you set out to do.

If you have things you want to do in life, get ready to step out of your comfort zone. Don't let your weaknesses hold you back - you can do anything you set your mind to.

Ali Carsen is a writer and owner of the Confident and Sexy Website. For more enlightening articles, visit http://www.ConfidentandSexy.com today!