How can it be when all I can see is possibility!" I was going to fall for their prediction you know! but something kept pointing to me it is possible, only if I belief. I stop believing in them and start believing in my seeing.

How can you give up on such a good future? To find somebody that encourage and assure me I am okay is very difficult! when they don't see what I am seeing, when they look at me with the eyes of the past! when we are too close that I look too common to them!

Honestly I can't blame them! all I know is what I keep seeing, that vision refused to leave me alone.

It became a map guiding me to my destiny,even if I don't feel like doing it, I feel no peace within.

I decide one day to take up my cross and follow my heart, though the road is rough and the weather is dark,but one thing I keep saying, "This too shall pass".

What I keep seeing is too good to be gone.

I will keep on searching for it, till I hold it in my hand, who knows! may be my creator want it to bless somebody! May be the destiny of someone is tie to it!

I refused to give up I must keep on.

During my searching I met three kind of people.

G1. The unbeliever
G2. The drop out
G3. The encouragers

The first group put my believe down, they told me not to bother it can never be, they gave me example of those that are just living and managing and encourage me to be like them

They laugh at me and remind me of the family background I am coming from, they feel sorry for me and laugh at my seeing.

The second group are very angry people, they told me how much they know, and what they are sure of, they see me as a stubborn and stiff necked goat that will not give up. They warned me and told me it can never happen.

They gave me a lot of examples of those that tried but failed, they told me how qualified they are and what do I know.

They decided to turn their back on me for not listening to them, and I became lonely again!

The third group are god send, they see in me what I did not even see in myself, they wake me up with good words and tell me I can do it, sometimes I think to myself, where have you been all my life.

They go all the way and refuse to put me down, they cheer me up and pray for me.

I am sure you can relate to my story.

The most important thing is keep believing in your self.

No matter how difficult it looks like, if you can see it you can be it.

Wait for the moment that people will come and see what the lord has done in your life.

I encourage you never to give up on your dream.

A dream that is ordained of god never fail! wait for your time and see the blessings.

I have passion to encourage and assure people to come out of abuse and believe in themselves.
I am a writer, A speaker and an encourager.
I am married with two lovely kids ever.
I was qualified as a beauty therapist and my destiny is to beautifying people's life,mind and their body.

All the best.

Sola the encourager.