No they wouldn't if we did the same thing to them. So it's obvious they've kept the parts of confucian culture which are convenient for them to use such as losing face. However the old confucian saying of "Do not burden unto others what you cannot carry yourself" has been thrown to the back of their heads and buried into theas sub-core of their conscious.

Many so called claims of what chinese culture should be by locals themselves differ completely from place to place, so it's all relative. Remember these are the same types of people who judge superficially, so they shouldn't even be taken seriously as competent conduits of the respective culture in which they represent, end of story.