Kevin, you would have to be one of the most naive foreigners I have ever come across. The point that Silverboy and other enlightened and experienced posters are trying to make is this: Chinese men are inferior to Western men. This is not racism, but a scientifically proven, established fact. Chinese men are sexually deficient, and think that buying women gifts is an expression of love.

These arrogant Chinese fools think that women are their property, and that they own the body, mind, and soul of Chinese women.
I remember, I think it was SB who pointed out that he has never seen a film about interracial love or marriage in China. It was an excellent point, and glowing evidence of Chinese racism, especially racism by Chinese men.

Recently a freiend of mine in Beijing explained to me why Chinese women prefer foreign men. Western men are larger, and last longer in bed. They also do not view women as their personal property, in stark contrast to the attitude by Chinese males.

I make this plea to Chinese women: Just ignore Chinese men. They are a joke, and have absolutely nothing to offer you. I can not think of a single benefit you will get from marrying one of them. Asian women are the superior women on this planet, and Western men the superior apex men on the planet.

The choice for Chinese women is obvious!