If that is the case then the world is really in danger, to reciprocate bad behavior with more bad behavior is just wrong

Kevin,it is not about that. Chinese guys do far worse in the office environment, most of which is beyond the knowledge of foreigners in China. Only after living there some time, learning more Chinese, speaking to more people, can you learn the true natural state of things. Married chinese men, yes, MARRIED Chinese men are preying on university girls. Ever seen those shiny cars lined up outside universities... I have!! Have you?

When a westerner, who oft times is just a poor FT lures a girl, well what is wrong with that I ask you?

You just seem to want to hold China/ Chinese men aloft and decry westerners having a good time drinking/girl hunting/massagie-ing in China, we are only doing as in rome, and not even all of the time and not with as bad or brazen behaviour...

Swings and roundabouts.