I am English and my wife is Mongolian (outer Mongolian, not China) so we have no family around here. We had no money and no home. Thankfully a friend found us somewhere to stay for a while.

Young englishman, from an older Englishman to another...do you really think it is so sensible to get married in a place where you have no family, no savings, and not even your own purchased or rented home...if your friend didn't step in, what then?