I have to say, you don't make yourself very understandable sometimes. I talked to asdf about considering government aid but decided against it, and I was using it as an example that even if you had to depend on government aid you shouldn't give up your own principles which for me is America is still a better place to be than China due to a variety of reasons. You seem to have twisted my words around and ran away with your own assumptions behind my comment, of course the other poster I was arguing against more did it even worse but I decided to stop wasting time as I already proved my point.
I have to say right now that you do not come across as a very honest sometimes. You have something to hide? Certainly with your vague remarks you don't seem endearing. I am not in the mood to make another "frienemy" as I have met enough folks like those during my time abroad. Who said anything about coming back btw?

If you still don't know what my agenda is, I will try and be more clear to you. Some places are better than others, and no matter where you go if you lose sight of that then you're just screwing yourself over. Westerners who have a hard time finding a job could come to china, but if they had enough common sense they wouldn't be sucked into the China kool-aid machine. In fact it wouldn't matter where you go in the world, be it china or any other country. If you feel against this then I think you've had enough to drink. Maybe you shouldn't live just to please others, try and find your own value within yourself.

I don't know, Dragonised, a lot depends on how the die fall, as to whether or whether not we have had a good or bad experience in any particular environment. I'm bound to say that I think you are sincere in believing that Chinese women are somewhat lacking. By the same token I feel that you should believe me when I say that I have not got some wicked agenda , and I do believe that Chinese girls compared to Western girls are like a breath of fresh air-perhaps I have been fortunate and have always landed on my feet in China, and have worked at very excellent private schools; and that all the Chinese men I have met have been first class chaps. I even appreciate the government; not easy trying to govern the Chinese in all their variety; I think they try and do their best. Am I wrong or am I wrong? Well, I can only be 99% sure of that unless I am an idiot. Am i right or am I right?