Mancunian: read... I did not wrote this chinese... The one named Hazel Yin.. she wrote this to me. [edited]
我建议 永远都不要来中国。
中国人的 俗是，付钱的人说了算。

Oh, China Man, she blurted that out to you(in a letter/e-mail) did she? I assume she felt she needed to put you in your place. I still think what she says is in itself reasonable; but on the other, hand you may well have beem making reasonable demands. Do you think that you can clarify things a bit for us and give us your side of the story in detail ,please; that would be helpful if you want to nail this woman? What happened exactly, please? Cheers.